Autobiography of a 'Middle Class Girl'

Being born in a middle-class family, I always wanted to be rich and I thought, what is the feeling of living a rich life! A middle-class man wanders about in search of his status before the rich and thinks - perhaps I am a butterfly with a beak. You also want to be rich like me! Isn't it? Don't even look at the

, what a luxury the middle class lifestyle is, it is limited to the old routine - nine hours of work, six hours of sleep, the rest of the time is that artificial smile that must be decorated on the face after thousands of dreams have died. How sad!

Defining the middle class on the basis of income is a difficult matter, because even the definition of the middle class has a different 'kaleidoscopic' range. Strictly within this scope, ordinary middle-class parents can give their children 'tips' on living a 'middle-class' life on miserly policies. In this way, complex thinking like 'Middle Classosis' has been formed in this category.

John Maynard Keynes's book "The General Theory of Employment, Interest and Money" after reading the same "middle-classosis" basis in the relationship between the middle class and economic growth, it seems as if the government uses the middle class only as a necessary pawn for investment consumption.

When I read the book 'How Social Mobility Misleads Us' by Hadas Vis, an anthropologist at the 'Madrid Institute for Advanced Study', I found that middle-class ideologies were linked to 'meritocracy'. However, for a middle-class person, Forbes magazine shows the way to become rich and an entrepreneur. However, with conservatism mixed with middle-class finance, it is scary to jump into that path on the assumption that the venture will lose money. Along with that fear, I am reminded of the Irish writer Jonathan Swift's words - 'A wise man should have money in his mind, not in his heart.' Even the formal education that was acquired with great sorrow was no longer useful to earn wealth. Then what to do with the best 'grade'? Every graduate like me would be a millionaire if this 'grad' worked. Isn't it? So as every rich person knows, financial success has nothing to do with the ability to memorize textbooks. Instead, rich people believe in expanding their 'network' with the powerful.

Hey! Based on this formula, I would fall into the category of the same lure, very ordinary, middle-class girl, whom famous people would have a relationship with, but would be afraid to accept socially. Because, I am not a suitable representative of their social 'status'. I am a middle-class worker, but what do they know, how middle-class societies have affected mature Western democracies in Latin America? Being middle class, I know everything from the sluggish economy to the rising price of petrol. There are educated, middle-class people like me, who go abroad with the dream of becoming one of the rich. And, in this way, another widespread problem is created in the society - 'brain drain' i.e. intellectual flight.

My father Sharad Chhetri has been writing on the topic of 'brain drain' - 'I wanted to write something about 'brain drain' since a long time ago, but because I didn't get the chance to deal with such a problem, I probably didn't have the courage to do it. In my mind - is this topic appropriate in our society? The question was standing as an obstacle like a mountain - but this time I saw a foot in its chest.

As Baba said, 'brain drain' has become like an economic burden in our society. Narrating the story of 'brain drain', mother used to say - Dada from Calcutta and Nilay, a Bengali friend who looked at him as wise, this time the prestigious institute of Khadagpur

He had returned from the 'Indian Institute of Technology' (IIT, Khadagpur) after passing the post-graduate level final examination in Physics. While talking to Nilaya, Dada was saying - 'Nilaya, why did you decide to go to Holland, didn't you?'

Nilaya's answer was, 'I got a chance in USA too, maybe you should go there instead of going to Holland. Our merits are not valued in this country. Therefore, if you want to be appreciated, you have to go abroad. Let's go together.'

Dada, who studied physics, used to say - 'No, I don't know anything. I love the mountains, I live here. Teaching.'

Nilaya said, 'That is only the zeal of your age, only emotionality. Be practical. Where is your work worthy of study in this mountain? So decide to go abroad.'

After Nilay returns to Calcutta, his mother explains to Vivek Dada and says - 'Perhaps, in my opinion, you should go outside, there is no proper scope here.'

Being away from family is emotionally difficult. As parents age in every middle-class household, concerns about the health and well-being of the family members begin to mount. So Dada also had to go abroad. The mountain boy had no choice. He was only suffering a minor injury towards a normal 'brain drain', a bigger injury was the mountain mother, who was forced to send her younger son as a soldier in other people's wars just for food. Even knowing many such things, the middle-class mother may have found herself in a complicated calculation, in which there was no easy rule to measure the volume of the foot visible on the chest of the mountain, so how to prevent it?

A 'brain drain' is a result of a high percentage of the population in developing countries like India. Because the race to participate in world-class institutions has increased. The world is obsessed with money and we middle class Indians are no different. As it is easier to earn money abroad than in India, now the problem of 'brain drain' has become a common issue among middle class families.

may be, India has inadequate institutions, which are not sufficient for the sake of 'global exposure', 'brains' read in terms of facilities. Or maybe there is a lack of opportunity due to the ongoing political instability in the country. And, there is a strong pressure of reservation. However, I think the main reason for 'brain drain' is this - the dull 'middle class' thinking of most of us. Most of the youth go abroad in search of a better lifestyle. Even though they are intellectually great after studying, it is only to stay in India and not face the same 'middle class mentality', the 'brain drain' has appeared in the country. Isn't it?

So the middle class is not just 'average income'. In many areas this actually means 'above average income'. This is especially the case in areas with large differences between the poor and the rich. Jim Frederick wrote in 'Time' magazine in 2002, 'China's growing middle class is the key to the country's future.' The backbone of both democracies is shrinking for the middle class in most developed societies.'' It now represents 31 percent of the population and is expected to reach 38 percent by 2031.

Middle Class Aukat and Akash

Anyone who grows up in the middle class is taught from an early age to balance the family's income and expenses, aspirations and reality, wants and needs. To make my daughter a straight person in the future, Baba taught me Hridaychandrasingh Pradhan's essay 'Sojho'. Baba used to say - 'Devils or demons are ruling the society because of Sojha's presence.' But, when I was 16 years old, life took such a turn, I lost 'Baba' from my life forever. Growing up with that mother, we were completely middle-class. The scourge of middle-class problems made me find the word 'simple' very difficult. Under that pressure, I was just a 'hocho' middle class girl to society and family, who longed for a beautiful house, expensive car and a happy, rich life without taking any future debt. And, I think, every middle-class person has this desire. However, children from middle-class families are often 'weakened' by their parents - by instilling in them a passion for art from a very young age.

I was also considered a poor middle-class art lover. I loved playing the guitar since childhood. After 'Ba' passed away, the gift he gave me grew fonder of that guitar. I often used to carry my 'Blackbird' guitar on my shoulder to college. Must be, I was in the last semester of post graduation. And I had resolved to pay my own college fees for that year. So after the college term, I started going to the local church to teach guitar in the evenings. So, I was taking care of college fees that year. However, suddenly one day due to the differences of the opposition political parties, a fierce stampede broke out in the college premises. The campus seemed engulfed in violence all around. In that violence, someone trampled and broke my 'Blackbird' guitar. I could not afford to buy another guitar. At that time, my mother was saying, 'A Lilliput Lure, you 'middle class' girl, you have to accept my power.'

I silently accepted the power of 'middle class'. But, it was the political fire of the college, in which my dream was burnt and after that fire was extinguished, the burning smoke rising from its ashes made me realize that there was no 'ba' in my life. Now, the act of hiding the earthly parts of the 'Blackbird' guitar from my mother's eyes to a dark corner of the house, the very thought of which makes me cringe. After that incident I was walking on the path of becoming a 'Dattachitta Yogi' by fully accepting the middle class ideology.

is, 'Dattachitta Yogi'. I think every middle class person is a 'Dattachitta Yogi'. Every middle-class person suffers terribly when his dreams are killed.

The Chosen Middle Class Dream

Most financial constraints play a significant role in the life of a middle class student. A fixed budget is set by the family for the student's expenses such as tuition fees, textbooks, school uniforms, transportation and personal needs. I passed the examination of 'CSIR Junior Research Fellowship' in India after my post graduate education in Biology. And I got a chance to join a 'research project' under Kalyani University. There, ``research'' students were given 24,000 per month. While there I grew close to three other Bengali friends. Bengali parents live a miserable life, but do not let their children suffer. So the parents of the two friends bought them a scooty to reach the 'Research Centre'. I always used to get a 'lift' to the 'Research Center' on the scooty of those friends.

But, the habit of getting a lift like that gave me the urge to fly on a scooty like my friends. Then I resolved, anyway this time I will buy a scooty on 'loan'. So every day I used to say to my mother, 'Mother, my 'Research Center' is very far from the 'Hostel' where I am staying, it takes me a long time to get there, I wake up with pain in my legs at night, this time I will buy a scooty with an 'EMI loan' ni hai. '

At first the mother did not say anything. But, as the same excuse kept repeating itself, one day the mother said, "Oh, there is no need to buy a scooty, it is very expensive." What, did you forget your brother's education? Shouldn't it be taught? Wait, I have a solution for Scooty. Why are you using a bicycle instead? Oops, reaching the research center on a bicycle? I got goosebumps thinking about those scooty friends. So, until the 'research' period was over, I spent my time on foot with the proverb 'health is wealth'.

Perhaps many of you must have experienced such a small dream in your dorm room? Isn't it?

The position of the middle-class person is very pitiful – not having the fate of a childhood like Taimur (son of Hindi film hero Saif Ali) or an old age like Anoop Jalauta. But, they seem busy with their own problems.

Being in the 'middle class' also has its own advantages - whether the price of a 'BMW' vehicle increases or a new 'iPhone' is launched, the middle class does not matter.

Middle-class life is a struggle, but full of excitement. Life can seem difficult when it comes to living. But, life has a meaningful goal.

The ease of middle-class life inculcates the art of living selflessly and for the happiness of others in the future. So here even the smallest achievement in life brings happiness and satisfaction. Therefore, no matter how much you dream of in a middle-class life, the warm love and companionship of belonging brings happiness to the family. So it is not just as life-are despised like writing.

Exams and Moderate Class Problems

Hands are certainly not the golden period of middle-class life. My mother rushed into solitude after the unexpected death of Baba. Then she was moved by the burden to give a 'good future.' She was doing that day, the news channels 'switched'. She did not let her sleep sleep with her knees. The midworld's suffering is not - not save. So I could not go to Silgadhi to the college test to the afternoon. Thus, I was sitting at my friend's house and financially. & NBSP;

shaded was also a daughter of a middle-class family. Most of the daughter's daughter's daughter's daughter is 'attendal bed', and Rum's only one can get married. So we spent the night after reading on open bliplets for the test. The shadow said the day you know that, a true 'Middle Class' person closest to the one who closes the guidge, until the cold water comes to the null. The 'midde class' is a sudden atheist during the time of giving, and the beliefs at the time when the victim would eat. In fact, 'Mindle class is "hanging in the temple, which weak, minority every kind of full part of every kind of full work forces them. The middlewg is not a government facility. Thirteenth, whatever the fee above the government department is also under the table or the stabilization of the finely in the finely.

Medicer Class People Loans will not forgive. There is no free home for the middle class, not free electricity or water. The middle class is just for a robbery. The people of the middle class in India are most neglected, because government results, government results are not affected. & Nbsp;

'Middle Class Family is running at precise budget. Mother's concern that doesn't fall to the salary house at the end of the month, Thank Kanturi. No matter what Middle Class 'a lot of Middle Class', how much more expensive "is pass away. So I have to escape from such life. '

I have no freedom in life, the upper class woman is just a delusion. Just as everyone rews, like everyone believes, the 'midle class' is very more than the other upper class, "Bartening' is flowing in blood, which is not with the high class people. & Nbsp;

shadows showed that day and said, 'This kui moves only once or twice in the month, and when going to the college or out. One year I make it a house worker. After the use of how much age is the use of the mother's window, it uses the clothes to clean the window window windows. This is to become a tap of my kurtta's future. & Nbsp;

middle-class person bus collects on the crowd, it is piercing, ukuducuous. And, to be uninsured he is to live. Marx and Warbar said the primary classification of social classes based on economic criteria. Marx argues, the middle class is a 'little capitalist', which has a private property, but cannot help others. On the contrary, the webrrhea believes: The middle-class person has a different marketable skills than unskilled workers. Despite the Middle class, weber argued that the middle class provisions are expanding medium class in the capitalist system, which sounds 100% true in today's date. & NBSP; The

was emergence of a new social group in the 18th century, which was known as the medium class. The expansion of foreign trade and goods production moved from the rich class from the same middleway. In addition to the merchants and makers, the mediocre was also lawiles and administrative officials who were educated. & Nbsp;

Chad by Indian leaders after the freedom of 1947. And, that was the Indian Mentilateral, who was on the role of leadership in those organizations. So three squares appeared in Indian society: Evil and efficient, workers-'accessor', the lower end of the 'spectrum'. Large industrialists and landlords formed a higher class. And at the end, the middle class made of government officials, doctor, university 'etc. were built. In India, the uneducated, but the rich businessman is not considered a middle-class. Therefore, education can be more defined by the Indian Medical class.

so to be medium-class is becoming a sign of conscience, culture and the doctrine. That is why the middle class is considered as a spine of society. Recalling the same definition of the middle class as a medium-class is dependent on the medium or lower class. Often, the government wants to urge the lower class, communicate communal violence, and the votes marked. & NBSP;

government was deprived of all types of government concessions to all types of government concessions when creating a middle-government. In this way, it became busy correcting the things of daily life. It was educated, but when you were worried about my family, it did not get the time to oppose the government's mistake. & Nbsp;

is an Indian 'Middleg' in each three, whose annual income is Rs. One million to 3 million has up to 3 million. And, India's cultural-political life dominates the middle-class life.

Indian or Nepali Middle Body class, that's just the mindset. One such mindset, which seek stability in life and suffer for the change in changing. In fact, the middle class is the name of that deposit, which has the ability to change society.

John Locks, Jin Jack Roos and Montessee view philosophers like Montessee Russo and Montessee consider the middle class for the change in the society. According to philosophers, the medium-class is spreading the society in society, according to philosophers. Salam is the - the middle class. & Nbsp;

so I go to the same middle of the same middle class even if a headache in a booklet is hurting a job in the account of a transvest. I wanted to ask: Are you a middle class like me, like me? & NBSP;