It is not possible to understand the minds of 100 people: Sociologist Dhakal

Sociologist Dhakal, while speaking in the last session of the 'Nirbhik Nari' program organized by Kantipur Publications Limited on Thursday, said that it is not possible to satisfy the minds of all the people in the society.

'Many people are watching, insulting, there is no such post that has got 100% positive response,' she who is also a professor of Trichandra Campus, said about the comments on social media, 'hundreds of people have hundreds of opinions, now hundreds of people have hundreds of opinions. If you move on, life will not reach anywhere.'

She said that while living as a person different from the social structure and society's view, you should be able to ignore unrelated things. "You have to ignore it, there is no possibility to please everyone, if you can't please anyone, then why not live your life in your own way?" If it doesn't affect me, I should pay attention to that, no, if it affects me, I will not stop living.' Due to the pictures, videos and posts on social media, cyber attacks and trolling are also done on him.

Likewise, sociologist Dhakal understands that the measure of beauty is changing according to place and time. "Previously, a beautiful woman meant looking after the children at home, treating her husband in the same way, and not making a face when he came in the evening." Now that scale has changed,' sociologist Dhakal added, 'it may not change to that scale now, even if you don't face it, it won't work. '

She said that the scale of beauty is different according to the social structure, Himalayan, hilly and Terai regions. He says that many beauty standards are changing, including the shy nature taught by the common books, stories, and novels read by common readers.