Biki Aggarwal's mother: Durga died without seeing her son's 'Darbar'

What was the mother? Biki probably didn't feel it when they were together. Now I feel tired, 'Mother was everything.' He doesn't have an account of it, but he wants to hear the same scoldings and orders in his mother's voice. They ask themselves, 'Why did you realize the importance of your mother only after you lost it?'

श्रावण १३, २०८२

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Biki Aggarwal's mother: Durga died without seeing her son's 'Darbar'

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On that day, his heart was full. His face was beaming with happiness. After many days, the mother appeared in comedian Biki Aggarwal's dream. The mother who went to kiss the forehead of her sleeping son every morning was only a memory for 3 years. This time Sustari came to Biki's dream world.

She sat next to her son and gave him a warm hug. His eyes suddenly widened as he was enveloped in his mother's warm embrace. Biki got up from the bed. Spouse Shraddha Prasai asked in panic, 'What happened?' Biki felt supernatural happiness and said, 'I hugged my mother.' "Kasto raich Biki Ksete city!," Durga Thapamgar, a mother living in Sikkim, India, wanted to see her son's city. On top of that, he wanted to feel the fame his son had earned in Nepal with love. Two years ago, mother came to Kathmandu for the first time with Biki. While putting things in the car when coming to Nepal, the elder brother mockingly said, "Keep my mother there, Biki." The mother also laughed and replied, "I will not come to your house, I will stay with Biki."

The mother walked to Kathmandu crying under the guise of Biki. When landing at Kathmandu airport, mother was enjoying looking at the city. He has collected many photos with his mother in Biki's Google Drive. He shows and says, 'This is the last photo taken at the airport.' When he feels completely alone, he gathers courage by looking at those photos. While coming down to Kathmandu, the mother saw not only the city, but also her son's fans. The next day, while going to Pashupati Temple, people came to take pictures with Biki. The mother said to those who had taken pictures with her son, "Pakhnu, I will take pictures with you too." Biki was ashamed and said to Southi, "Mom, what have you done?"

Biki was starting a new project at that time. Remembering his mother, he later named the project 'Amma Kasam Yaan Dukhcha'. The mother saw that her son was busy running around. After coming to Kathmandu, Durga started having headache. Biki used to massage her mother's head from time to time. Perhaps it was the next headache! Mother woke up early in the morning and took a bath and prayed. Biki was leaving for a meeting with a producer. When her son left, Durga said, "Bring medicine when you come." 

Mother looked better than the day before. Biki came out laughing with her normal looking mother. Busy with appointments and meetings throughout the day. When he returned in the evening, he bought medicine for his mother. When he got home at night, the flat was dark. Biki felt cold. He hurried into the bedroom, switched on the light. There was no mother. Rushing into the kitchen, Mom was lying on the floor. Biki's arms suddenly hugged. It was as if the sky had fallen and thunder struck his head. He went closer and touched his mother. Mother was silent. His conscience said, "Mother is gone." But his heart did not agree, "Mouth to mouth" breath. CPR was given but the mother did not wake up. The room was quiet, mother was quiet. The son's heart, who had gone through a defeated mood, became restless. He held the phone with trembling hands. He called his brother in Sikkim and told him the unexpected news, 'Mother is no more.' Burning with remorse. "What have I done?" Biki scolds herself heartily. What happened to the mother during the day that she left? Cramps even thinking about it. He didn't know anyone around him. Nor was there a phone here,' he sounds restless, 'the mother who came to see the world of her son could not be saved by her son.' What happened after that? Dhamila remembers Biki saying, 'I blacked out.' She only has a faint memory of Ba and Dai coming, sitting on the road near the hospital.

The whole of Sikkim seemed to be waiting for the mother who settled herself in Kathmandu. Mother had plans after returning from here. Biki's brother's wedding was to be celebrated. The new house was to be inaugurated. He had to bring in the car that his son had bought. But mother left everything behind. After that, everything is limping. It seems that now it will never come back to rhythm,' Biki Ghayal sounds hurt.

Biki Aggarwal's mother: Durga died without seeing her son's 'Darbar'

What was the mother? Biki probably didn't feel it when they were together. Now she feels tired, "Mom was everything." She used to call and ask, "Do you want to eat?" Like a baby, she used to order, "Sleep fast, drink a lot of water." How much did she listen, how much did she not listen. She doesn't have an account of it, but Biki wants to keep hearing the same scoldings and orders in her mother's voice. And every now and then they keep pinching themselves, 'Why do you realize the importance of your mother only after you lose it?' On the other hand, Bako was facing health problems. Everyone's attention was focused on Ba, even the mother. When she left the house, she said to her brothers, "Tell father to eat at the right time." 

Mother who cares for everyone passed away. That too in the short span of 53 years. How painful it is for children to abandon their mother! Biki covers herself. And, they say,  'It's like leaving a small child.' Biki could not accept this for many days. Even now, when he goes to Sikkim, he sees his mother working in the fields. He hears his mother calling him. That's why he doesn't want to go home. The brothers ask, 'Won't you come to Sikkim?' He says to himself, 'I miss my mother, how can you come?' 

People show motherly love on social media walls. Biki can't do that. It is not even possible to say 'Happy Mother's Day' in Matatirth Aunsi. But Biki comes to narrate the story of her mother, who has carefully kept it in her heart. He narrates his mother's memories.

Biki Aggarwal's mother: Durga died without seeing her son's 'Darbar'

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In Biki's house, father was a math teacher, mother Nepalese. But Biki is weak in both. Instead he was interested in reading and writing comics. Durga used to bring search books for her son. Biki used to study hard. Even now, he sees pictures of his mother in the piles of comic books at home. That comic book was the foundation for me to reach here. The credit for that was given to my mother," says Biki.

Mother understands children quickly. But it took time to understand the mother. They later learned about June Durga's Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). It was a strange disease. "Like if you shake hands with someone, you have to wash your hands 10 times, if someone enters the house, you have to clean them," said Biki  describes

. When a visitor entered the house, the family would be disturbed. "If someone were to wash my mother, she would take out the bed, seat and curtain. Biki remembers. Even at one o'clock in the night in Sano, Biki saw her mother washing clothes. This mother's problem reached from home to school. So it was like an unannounced ban on anyone coming to the house. Friends would come home. But he was never taken inside. Instead, he met outside and returned. If someone came, we would quickly run to the gate, meet them there and return. We were afraid to bring guests in,'' recalls Biki.

At first, no one knew about the mother's illness. Father used to fight with mother a lot. Even when she went to school, she used to carry two clothes. The clothes used to go to teaching and back were different. "Throughout our childhood, we felt like this happened in everyone's house," recalls Biki. Later, the family came to know about the mother's illness. And everyone's attention went to control measures. Along with her family, Durga managed her illness. By the time Biki was in college, she was already bringing friends into the house.

While studying in college, Biki's heart was drawn towards film and music. At that time, three/four screenplays of the film had already been written. However, the screenplay was thrown into dustbin before it was screened. Biki looks back, "They were not worth making films." Once Biki was a drummer. He had a deep love for guitar, violin and drums. He stayed in the band for four years. Until then, he had not been able to tap into the comedian in him. Biki did her Masters in English. And, he became a master in the village school. The mother also wanted to see her son become a teacher.

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Life took a new turn one day. That mode was created by their own mood. "There is no standard comedy in Sikkim yet, let's do it," said Biki and Biti Kancha together. The program went according to plan. Biki also did comedy for the first time. He did not think that he would become a hit from the program. Manabhari gathered courage, "Comedy is what I have been able to do." At the same time, he found out that "Comedy Champion Season 2" is about to start in Nepal. I wanted to visit Nepal. I applied for that and got selected. 

happened for the first time in the show 'Seventh Wonder'. "Got straight to the top ten after getting the golden key," recalls Biki. The "golden-key" received at that time was later decorated by the mother inside the glass. The journey that started in Comedy Champion gave Biki a new identity. His loveliness, style and humor were appreciated by the audience. He wanted to revel in 'risk' by experimenting in comedy as well. He took the same 'risk' through 'Pantomime' towards the end of Comedy Champion. Although the judges did not like it, the audience cheered.

He did not become a champion. But after leaving the field of comedy champion, many comedians are driving the career chariot. Be it the youth-centric show 'Amma Kasam Yaan Dukhchha' or the current favorite of many, 'Comedy Darbar', spouses Shraddha and Biki are masterfully helming it. Now Biki's steps are moving towards the film industry. Only on Monday, spouse Shraddha and he announced their first film 'Ka Ka Ki Ki'.

At that time, even before reaching the semi-finals, Vicky thought, "I don't want to become a champion, but I must be ready for the next field." To become a "champion" not only viewers, but also votes were needed. The fight for votes is more difficult. At that time, mother Durga sat in a stall asking her son to vote. Biki heard the others saying, 'How is your mother doing? You have set up a stall to ask for votes for you.'Durga was laughing on the phone and said to her son, 'Dad, don't stress about money, give a good performance.'

Biki Aggarwal's mother: Durga died without seeing her son's 'Darbar'

When she remembers the light on her mother's face as her son's name is being formed, silence falls inside Biki. "Now no matter how successful I am, I am not satisfied" Biki sounds emotional again. Discontent in creation is profitable. It makes Biki even more dreamy. So they take risks, not fear. After the loss of her mother, the remaining fears and pains seem insignificant to her. It is said that there is nothing greater in the world than a mother. "That's why there is no greater pain than the pain of losing a mother," Biki Dahro says with a firm chest. Having digested the pain, Biki is now considered a 'long race horse' by well-wishers. Perhaps Durga also wanted to see her son running towards her.

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