Both sons and daughters should be taught to be responsible and independent from a young age. Even now, in the society, sons are taught to earn money and daughters are taught to take care of the family. In the age of technology, such knowledge is not suitable for everyone.

Now I am 32 years old. Even though he is young, experience has taught him many lessons in life. I fell in love while studying in 9th grade. After knowing that I was in Mayapirim, I got married to Bishnu Ale of Byas Municipality-13 of Tanahun with the approval of my parents. The relationship with whom I married as my everything was not lasting . Those who left their studies in the middle of the relationship after getting married are now looking back.

As my father was a teacher, I used to teach as much as I wanted. He also encouraged me to read. If I had studied continuously at that time, I would have had a good job now. There is no place to complain about the current experience as it is your own decision to get married. Now I am supporting myself and my son by sewing in Beas Municipality-2, Damauli. 

I was 16 years old when I got married in 2065. Four years later, a son was born. Now the father has turned 12 years old. Mahmai is studying in class 8 in a boarding school near home. I came down to the city to send my son to a good school. After coming here, the expenses increased . This city has taught me to earn two pennies after doing nothing. To break the story, I moved here with my husband. Together, we also ran a grocery store for the first year.  As there is no business, investment has sunk . He had no skill in his hands. Therefore, I learned sewing by paying money in June 2075. Since then, I have continued to do this work . Now this sewing-cutting has become the means of paying my household expenses.  

When the husband was with them, they encouraged each other and encouraged each other . He is now in India . Not only the distance of geography, but also the distance of mind has increased. It has been 5 years since our relationship started. For the past two years, there is no meeting. There is not much communication now. We know each other as long as we are alive . 

Earnings from siliketai are going well . I have already paid my son's school fees, books, copy-pen, room rent, water ration. We have rented two rooms. 12,000 rupees per month for one shutter and one room. 3000 rupees should be paid only for son's school fee . For evening-morning, dal-rice, maramsala should be purchased . Kitchen expenses are more than 10,000 per month.  

It is not known how much is earned from this business . During the festival, the month of marriage earns 5 to 6 thousand rupees, otherwise it comes to 1/2 hundred . One day you won't even earn a penny. There is land in the village. I don't want to go and do farming . In Belabel, when parents come to visit from Maaiti, they bring vegetables . With the earnings of this sewing, salted oil, spices, rice, pulses are used for morning and evening snacks.

Mother-in-law is not . Not only my son and I, there are also brothers in the village . Sometimes you have to get there. It is difficult to deliver from my business . I am doing it as much as possible. When things are difficult and difficult, it is from the father.