Adolescents remain silent when abused by family members or at school, young children do not even know that they have been abused, so parents and family members should educate them about possible abuse and teach them to fight back.
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Two years ago, news came from a district near Kathmandu - 'A 12-year-old girl was raped by her grandfather.' The girl's father was not the girl's father, but the mother and daughter lived in her grandfather's house. The girl did not think that her grandfather would rape her.
She was always happy when her grandfather hugged her and fed her. But one day, when no one was at home, he raped the girl. The mother found out and informed the police. But that girl was like a mental patient. Knowing that, we brought him to an organization called 'Antar Drishti' in Kathmandu. After healing her mind and body, she is now studying. Grandpa is in jail.
"If there are uncles, aunts, cousins or any other men in the house, girls and teenagers should be made aware of possible sexual abuse from them," said Dr. Vishwabandhu Sharma says, 'How many girls and teenagers do not tell their mothers or fathers when they are sexually abused by teachers at school, father or brother's friends or uncles at home.' But such problems are frequently seen in society.
Not all homes have such problems, but girls and teenagers can be sexually abused by family members and blood relatives. Because of such a relationship, many teenagers have become pregnant and come to the gynecologist. My gynecologist friend narrated a similar incident, 'A few months ago, a 15-year-old girl was brought to me for an abortion. She is 5 months pregnant.
was brought by his sister. I sent the sister outside and had a conversation with the girl. Then it came to know that the husband of her husband had been raping the girl. From the outside, Fupaju shows that he loves that girl very much and the people of the house are also saying that she is the daughter of Fupa and Fupu.
Kishori endured everything thinking that if she told anyone that Fupaju had raped her, they would not believe her. Some time ago her period stopped. But when her mother said that 'this is how it happens in growing age', she kept silent. Later, her mother and sister came to know that she was pregnant. Kishori said crying. But she scolded instead.
The people of the house have brought her to have an abortion without informing anyone to save their honor. And I called my sister and instead of reporting such an incident to the police, she asked me not to report the incident to the police and to have an abortion anyway, because the respect in the society and the life of that girl would be ruined. And I had an abortion.'
According to another senior gynecologist in Kathmandu, the problem of molestation and rape of children and teenagers is increasing.
Maybe there were such incidents before but they did not come out. In some schools, there are cases of sexual abuse and rape by principals or teachers by calling girls or children to study at home or keeping them in school for more time. When abused in this way, the behavior of teenagers may change, they may stay silent, and the level of education may drop.
Adolescents remain silent when bullied by family members or at school. Young children do not even know that someone has abused them. In some places, there have been cases of rape by young and adult men who are babysitting children. In the same way, cousins, uncles, brothers, and cousins of their own age also engage in sexual activities such as hugging and kissing girls on the pretext of love.
If the girls are aware about this in advance, such incidents can be reduced. The father or mother of the house should teach her that if someone behaves indecently, touches any part of her body, kisses her or tries to rape her, immediately come and tell someone. It should also be taught that you should retort in a strong voice.
Children sometimes do not understand what they are doing. They probably won't say someone pinched, sexually pecked on the cheek, etc. Therefore, girls should be given special protection by the elders of the house.
Such problems can occur not only in cities, but also in villages. So family members can and should inspire girls to speak up in a fearless environment. Teenagers have a hard time distinguishing between sex and love. One who has sex may feel that he loves himself and that he will spend his whole life happily with him.
If there is a place where they can be counseled, some teenagers can talk about their problems and tell people at home. Therefore, mothers, sisters, fathers should be aware and help to save their daughters and sisters from such sexual abuse.
