As soon as we say a daughter, no matter who she is, our mentality is very weak in terms of understanding her, in terms of how she lives her life. Daughter refers to the entire female world. Our mothers, sisters, daughters, sisters-in-law, mother-in-law are all daughters of someone. All these relationship indicators should be carried by every daughter.

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from home, discrimination behavior. Daughter, you should wake up in the morning. You are a daughter, work as a housewife. Do the cleaning work and do the kitchen work. Speak sweetly, speak slowly. Come home before evening. A girl should not go out with a stranger in the evening' etc., etc. 

Why is there no change in our thinking? If the son of the same father and mother has made a 'girl friend', it becomes a matter of prestige. On the other hand, a girl is viewed with suspicion even when she talks to a boy. Before going on a picnic with a friend, one must ask three generations for permission. Even if you go hiking alone and post a photo on social media, you will be hit with a whip of suspicion as to who took that photo.

When rape is happening here every day, when will we understand that it is our sons who are raping and our daughters who are being raped, regardless of who and where the incident is? Why can't we make every son in the family a good character and moral? When will we leave our bad mentality of still seeing good even if the son does bad and bad even if the daughter does good?  Leaving aside the things outside the

, even the members of their own household do not like the daughter laughing, the daughter wearing the clothes she likes, doing what she wants, eating the food she likes. In which law has it been written that a daughter should endure heinous violence, endure family crime and maintain the honor of her family, endure any kind of violence, live with the person she is married to, i.e. in the language of our society, she should live at home? Shouldn't we be ashamed to be fathers and mothers if we are fathers and mothers who want to live with the same husband and family even after enduring unbearable violence? Why haven't we been able to think about how many places and how many times greater violence has to be consumed when a daughter who has received violence from a family seeks justice from outside? Children have an equal role to keep the

creation going. Along with puberty, marriage is also a biological necessity in our language. While saying this, today's society should not make the comment that the daughter should eat the house after marriage, even if it is like the husband of the daughter, no matter how she is treated by the family. While saying this here, I do not mean to say that violence is endured only by daughters. Some sons may also have had violence. It is true that not only in Nepal but globally, girls are subjected to various types of violence in larger numbers than boys. No matter who it was, there was no violence. Violence was not tolerated. All of us should be able to build a society without violence. 

Let's start bringing positive synergy in the way we look at ourselves so that today's lovely girls can live confidently in their own identity. First of all, I am a woman, I have indomitable courage, ability, why not use it to the fullest? Let every daughter, make the first love of each day to herself. Let's invest time, labor and income for ourselves. The love you have for yourself will never kill you.

Let's invest time in learning our education, acquiring various skills, practicing yoga, creative activities, so that we can become capable and independent. It is important to invest money for quality knowledge, nutritious food. The investment you make for yourself does not result in loss. 

It is also important to make the view of women positive. I endured so much violence as a woman, now my daughters should be able to rise above it. Seeing the happiness of a woman who can't do anything and has progressed through suffering, he didn't sit around dragging his feet and cutting things. A woman's existence means her husband, daughters without identity thinking that if I don't have a husband, I don't exist, it is not acceptable in today's society. 

Let's treat our children equally and have the same 'schooling' from childhood in every family. Let's teach moral education to both. Both should be given equal opportunities for everything like cooking, cleaning and doing other outdoor chores, playing with friends and going for walks. The word 'you are a daughter, so do this', prevalent in our society, is not acceptable to today's girls. If such words are said in their own family, then the future daughters should be able to answer them.

There is a big problem in the way men see, understand and treat women. Even today, there is a widespread trend of thinking, understanding and treating women as an object even among men who are well educated, who have jobs and education. There are many men in our society who make love proposals saying that you are my everything, you are a goddess before marriage and treat her like a private object after marriage.

If sons bow down to daughters and ask for forgiveness when they make a mistake, sons will benefit. Today's daughters want equal treatment with their sons, they want equal love, affection and respect. Treating an object like a wife or a daughter-in-law is no longer acceptable. The future daughter should not take the contract of maintaining the house of the son who behaves like this.