dear children,Every person wants success in life. But what is success? How to get success? Definition of success and the way to reach it - these 2 questions always hang around looking for an answer, but never completely found. Today I will discuss about this in this article.

really means success is a concept. If you ask a criminal, he says - he killed without fear, he considers it a success. Getting away with murder, that is an even bigger success for him. That is why some people sell themselves for wages in criminal work, set their own price. They brutally kill innocent people who have to live for their country and society.

To be able to rob a group of bandits is to be successful. For them, looting and spreading terror is success. They value human life more than some money. It is not an inanimate creature like a hired criminal as mentioned earlier. It does not work for the benefit of others, it works for its own benefit. That advantage is also risky. Therefore, there is always a desire to commit major crimes so that there is no risk. He considers himself successful when he walks away with cash and valuables safe from the place of robbery. 

A pickpocket considers himself a success when he diligently kills a pickpocket. If he goes to the airport toilet with a fellow passenger, he will consider it a success to sneak out with a bag or suitcase that looks exactly the same. Because there is nothing in his bag.

is empty or jhutramutra, thotra cloth is pulled. But a true traveler has a lot of stuff in his luggage. He considers his ingenuity and thieving to be a success for walking with a suitcase like that. A criminal considers even a lowly, monstrous activity like raping to be his success. 

In the society, there is a group of people who consider it a great success even if a little person gets confused by burning with jealousy of others, abusing others, making false accusations or slanders, creating illusions, and killing people, or if a member of his gang carries him or supports his crooked moves. 

considers it his success to beat a strong Nirdha. Even if someone manages to cross the border of a weak neighbor, it is considered a success. But that's not success, it's poor performance. Even if he is rich today, his children may be destitute tomorrow and may go down the path of poverty.

Wrong education does not lead to progress. A strong and big country considers it a success to be able to inflict pain or unfriendly behavior on a small and weak country to satisfy its ego. Bombing other people's countries, killing their grandparents, parents, infants, in the womb, terrorizing and terrorizing them and occupying their influence is considered a success. If the path of humanity is abandoned, it is considered a success. But those are not real successes. 

Dear children,

There are different people in society. He has achieved real success in life. That success has made the society happy for its own sake, not crying. It is not by robbing the rights of others or taking unauthorized benefits, but it has facilitated the world itself.

An explorer develops a new technology after long study, discovery and research. It increases production and productivity for all mankind. Makes the work of mankind easy and simple. For example, the person who invented the washing machine simply removed the suffering of women. That is a huge success. It neither offends anyone, nor humiliates anyone, nor takes away anyone's human rights.

His own invention also makes sense. Others also get concessions and facilities. In fact If the achievement obtained from research and discovery in the field of science and technology is not misused, it will prove to be the wealth of the entire mankind. 

success is that which is exploited, not abused. Not only for yourself, but also for others. are put to the service of others. No one is being bullied. After completing that the researcher is happy. For example – Marie and Pierre Curie were delighted to discover radium. 

After how many days, the hand-stitched clothes were ready to be sewn on the machine in an instant. If you don't have scissors, how can you tear the cloth? If you tear it by hand, it can go crooked. Scissors were invented to cut it. Somehow it was cut without damaging anything.

The invention of scissors made a big difference in the world. How many studies have been done to cut the scissors and how to sew the clothes with the needle? That is certainly not a small invention. Today people are using the same technology wherever they go, be it sewing clothes or shoes. That innovation is for everyone. In fact, it is an achievement that leads mankind towards civilization. This is the real quest. is a real success. 

The feeling or perception of beauty is unique in itself. Explanation and analysis of theory and scriptures is also an achievement of discovery research. How do people go about making flower garlands? How could he realize that it is beautiful when worn around the neck of a man. I have said before - if you give it to a cow or a buffalo, it will tear the garland and eat it. If you find a flowering plant, you will eat it. Because he has no sense of beauty. But that understanding is in man. 

We talk about inner beauty. We talk about external beauty. We speak of spiritual beauty. We talk about physical beauty. We talk about 'perception of beauty'. This is a subject of study in itself. Only after streamlining it comes the matter of its branches and sub-branches. 

After all, what is beauty? What a beautiful idea to decorate a flower in a clay pot. How did humans learn to make clay pots? How did you know that the pottery becomes stronger after cooking the clay? It must have been discovered after many experiments. First, the clay was soaked with water, kneaded, shaped and cooked. 

Our terai houses have up to two floors. They are mostly single storey. In some farms, a wall is built on raw soil by excavating the soil. They put a window in the middle of the wall. Even if there is an earthquake, that wall will not collapse. That uterus does not crack, does not break. Because the soil is gelled inside the fibers of cloth or jute sack. 

Even in the mountains, if we cut jute and make mud in the same way, the house will not crack. The wind blows the entire wall but does not break. Who invented that technology? How was it invented? That is quite a success. Later, bricks were developed. Made transparent ceramic pots. The most used pottery in the world today is clay. They do not contain any germs or bacteria till their inner layer. Ceramic vessels are fired at temperatures ranging from 1,000 to 1,600 degrees Celsius. This is a meaningful success for the entire mankind. Positive success. It is absolutely for society. 

Dear children,

I have told the youth many times - do not get involved in the wrong company. Separate before association - right or wrong? Know people first. If there is any indication that it is wrong, leave the association. 

No one thinks of becoming a 'druggist'. But he is trapped and made a 'druggist'. It is easy for young children to become 'druggists'. Drug dealers trap them just to make money. They consider making money by ruining children's lives as success. It is not his success, it is misdeed, misdeed. The day they are found, they are prosecuted. As soon as it is known that their money has been earned through such misdeeds, they end up in the chains of the law. Therefore, that is not success. 

Your success is to avoid the company of such people and continue the journey of a successful life. Always protecting yourself from wrongdoing and laziness, thinking right and doing right is the key to success. A student who studies honestly, succeeds. A player who plays honestly, succeeds. If you don't go the wrong way, if you don't do whatever comes to your mind. Success comes with persistence with caution, honesty and awareness.

We are human. We have consciousness. To say that we say conscious, semi-conscious and dormant state. But generally we have unprocessed and processed thoughts. The brain processes raw thoughts. As we are social animals, we grind paddy, cook rice and eat rice. Other animals eat rice plants. Maize is also eaten raw. We eat maize by burning it, cooking it. Therefore we do not act on the basis of crude or natural ideas that come to mind. We move forward by thinking with the brain. By doing so we avoid making mistakes and achieve success.

ing requires honesty and relentless effort to be successful. We should act according to what comes to our mind in an unprocessed way. Terrible accidents can happen if we do not avoid wrong association. Life is not only hellish, but extreme failure can happen. So it is better not to join wrong company. Honesty, hard work, self-confidence, determination and determination make people successful. 

Individual success without connecting the whole mankind, country and society is selfish success. That success is not meaningful. Success is meaningful only when it serves others, influences, enlightens. For example, if you abuse someone and make a video, it will reach others. But it also spoils your own mind. But if you make a video by mixing a beautiful song-composition with the rhythm of the instrument and singing it in a melodious voice, it will not only bring joy to the audience but also to you. The mind is clean and pure. A heavy heart becomes light. Fatigue decreases and the mind heals. If you have insomnia, you will fall asleep. 

That's why we need to distinguish true success from false success. Only positive success should be called success. Only success that works for the society should be considered as success. The success of not causing pain to others, not harming others should be considered as success. Doing whatever comes to mind is never a success. 

Someone takes a gun and considers himself a winner, someone sheds the blood of others and decorates his head with a crown. Some lie, some beat others, some rob, some threaten - they consider themselves successful. 

Really, is this success?

But look, there is someone on the other side, who is lost in the same search day and night. He cooks raw clay to make pots, he enters the ocean and extracts new elements, he runs a free school, he searches for medicine, he reaches the heights of science and consciousness. He works not only for himself, but for everyone. 

Is this not success?

success is not a violent conquest, not an ego acquired by robbing others. Success is an invention, a song, an emotion, a simple smile. Success is the moment when a man goes to flower in a clay pot. Success is the courage to raise the pillar of your desires and hoist the flag of others' happiness on it.

The truth is this - success is a beautiful picture created not by defeating others, but by cooperating with others. Success is there, where no eyes have tears, no dreams have been crushed. Where the mind is light, where the mind is bright.