The dragging life of Nar Bahadur

Even though he is a cripple, he works, goes to the market to shop and helps others at home.

पुस १२, २०८१

मोहन शाही

The dragging life of Nar Bahadur

Nar Bahadur Bohra of Bogtan Foodsil Rural Municipality-7 Khatyadi is disabled. Fingers of both hands are interlaced with gloves, while the toes are turned in opposite directions. Even though he is crawling, he works, goes to the market to shop and helps others at home.

52-year-old Nar Bahadur lost his father at the age of 1, and his mother at the age of 17. He is the youngest of four siblings. has a sister. Two brothers passed away. Unmarried Nar Bahadur now lives with his elder brother-in-law and niece. Nar Bahadur said that he spends the amount of social security allowance on running the house and on the needs of his brother-in-law and niece. 

When he comes to the family, he also helps in cooking. They crawl to the nearby Khatyadi market and shop. Nar Bahadur said, ``My mind flies everywhere, I wish I could walk like other people.'' The pain is in the mind, if it stays in the mind. Don't read too much.'

The dragging life of Nar Bahadur

When he was young, he said that he had a lot of enthusiasm for reading. He used to crawl to school. He used to go to school regularly, splashing up and down the rough and rugged Kholsakholsi made by the rain. "The family didn't want to send me to school because I couldn't do it, the poor guy," he said, "I used to rebel against my family and go to school, but because of the teacher, I stopped studying."

While giving the final exam of class 5, he forced the teacher. He proposed that he should be given a helper to write the exam so that he could complete the exam on time as his limbs were disabled.

'I didn't feel so bad about being disabled, but the teacher answered that why do you need help, my heart felt like it was pierced,' Bohra said, 'From that day on, I started to keep all the pain in my heart, to anyone. It started to feel that there is nothing to be done.' I was studying with hard work,'' he said, 'but when the teacher, whom he considered to be like God, said harsh words, my chest became a flower. Bam says that even though he is disabled, Nar Bahadur excels in studies. 'He is a person who teaches tuition to students from class 4 to class 3,' Bam said, 'his letters were also very good, but unfortunately he could not read above class 5.' He taught at Gurudev Pravi Damauli for 4 years, Sunpali  at Pravi Badikedar for one and a half years, Khatyadi Mavi for a few years. He had to leave the teaching profession after the school curriculum was changed and various policies were made. 

He thinks - the day that cannot be dragged, the routine will be boring from that day. "From neighbors, leaders, people's representatives to journalists, they come and ask for pain and suffering," he became emotional, "What should we do by telling the lost pain, whatever is in my heart, I am content to keep it hidden."

The dragging life of Nar Bahadur

मोहन शाही

Link copied successfully