Every spermatozoon can become a father. But not everyone can be a father. Since the neocortex brain is the most extensive, humans are more rational and intelligent than other animals. Without conscience, compassion and love, human beings are no different from other creatures whose only purpose in life is to mate, bear children and die. In Bhagirathi Shrestha's story 'Awasan', a father devotes all his time to the safety and care of his disabled daughter. Dhritarashtra's love for his son causes carnage in the Mahabharata war.

In the novels of Narayan Dhakal , the episodes related to the role of the father come frequently . Khagendra Sangraula has discussed his conservative father in many essays. But perhaps the most popular Nepali work related to the role of father is the novel 'Karnali Blues' by Buddhisagar . By adding some humor and poignancy to his many memoirs about his father, he wrote a 400-page novel, the hero of which does not even hesitate to get his failed son to pass by negotiating with the headmaster of the school .

The father is both the ground to step on and the branch to hold. As long as he lives, the child will never leave his land . But this relationship is not limited to blood relations . In Mopassan's story ' Simon's papa ', the boy Simon is forced to face many insults, insults and torture at school because he does not have a father. Unable to bear such humiliation, one day he tries to commit suicide by throwing a spear into the sea. He is saved by a young laborer named Philip . After that, Philip always stands as a protective shield for Simon like a father. Simon and Philip become good friends . Father and son can also become friends . La Blasette, a single woman from a high family, agrees to marry Philip for the happiness of her son.

In Mopa's story ' The Father ', a low-class lover breaks up with his pregnant girlfriend . A girl gets married to a rich young man . Later, the ex-boyfriend keeps standing by his girlfriend's house, always dying to catch a glimpse of his son.

In Vittorio Desicca's film ' Umberto de ', the old Umberto has no children of his own . However, Maria, the housewife's maid, and Flick, the little dog, are her best friends in her sorrow. Both Umberto and Maria are sad. The pension given by Italy is not enough to cover Umberto's mouth and pay the camp rent . Antonio, the cruel housekeeper, threatens to evict him if he doesn't pay the remaining rent within a few days . The sick old man who is over seventy now where to go? There is Maria's own sorrow . He does not know which of the two lovers the three-month-old fetus in the stomach belongs to. Both lovers are not ready to accept the pregnancy. When the owner finds out, Maria is also kicked out .

Both Umberto and Maria comfort each other . This is what class love is all about . The stress makes Umberto sick. When he returns from the hospital, the housekeeper destroys his room and holds a big meeting . Unable to bear the blow to his self-respect, he leaves the camp that night, taking leave with Maria. When he tries to commit suicide by sitting on the rail after no other measures are taken, his free dog saves the old man .

Desica dedicated this film to his father Umberto Desica. Two of the world's greatest filmmakers, Ingmar Bergman and Martin Scorsese, have placed it in the category of 'world's most beloved cinema'. Sometimes in this film I find a vivid tableau of my own struggle and compulsion. My father's life itself was a unique museum of compulsion, tragedy, patience, accident, unrequited love and struggle. On top of that, I have written a story titled 'Strange Man'.

Maxim Gorky has a heart-breaking story – Kolyusa . The father of the sensitive child Kolyusha has just been released from prison. Mother thinks that life is ruined because of her father . He is saddened by his mother's unbearable contempt and chastisement towards his father. He thinks that because of extreme poverty, the father had to bear this contempt. Knowing that the family will receive money as compensation for his death, Kolusa goes to the zamindar's buggy to get hitched . In the hospital bed, he dies after taking money from the landlord and making several promises to his mother, saying, ``I will buy this for you, I will buy it for you.''

Udaya Prakash 's long story ' tirchh ', a teenager's description of his father's murder convinces the sensitive reader . Ramswarath Prasad, the former headmaster of the village school, goes to the city to pay the court fee. The previous day he was bitten by a poisonous lizard. After the doctor gave him the thorn water of Dhaturo seeds to get rid of the poison, his condition started . He vomits . After reaching the city, you feel thirsty. He doesn't know the way to the court . Wherever he inquires, he is beaten up by watchmen, policemen and stray boys thinking he is crazy. A boy hits with an iron rod . During the interrogation, it is said that the Pakistani spy who was mixing poison in the water tank is being beaten. He died around 6:30 in the evening. According to the post-mortem report, his bones were broken in many places and his right eye was completely ruptured. He died due to mental shock and excessive bleeding.

Nobel Literature Prize winner Mikhail Solokhob's story 'Birthmark' is another great story of father-son relationship . After the October Revolution in Russia, he was a logistics worker for a long time in the Solokhob Don region during the civil war. In that process, he portrayed the life struggles faced by the common people in a very vivid, honest and honest manner. During the battle, a deadly battle takes place between Ataman, an experienced fighter and bandit, and Nikolai, a young communist fighter. Ataman kills Nikolai in a sword fight . When trying to take off the dead man's boots, Ataman's pride collapses when he sees a pigeon's flower on the bottom of his feet. After learning that the killed young man is his own son, Ataman, drowning in extreme pain and remorse, shoots himself in the mouth .

Majid Majidi's film 'The Father' has a highly humane story of conflict and love between a stepfather and a stepfather. Kishore Mehrulla shows extreme hatred towards his stepfather . He steals his stepfather's revolver and escapes to the city. While returning from the city, both father and son get stuck in the desert. Finally, Mehrulla risks his own life to save his stepfather from the intense heat of the desert.

In Mahesh Bhatt's film 'Saraansh', a couple who are thinking of committing suicide after their son is killed in America finds the meaning of life in supporting the fight of a pregnant girl. In Bhatt's next film 'Daddy', a father returns to a meaningful life with the unconditional love of his daughter.

The struggle, sacrifice and fight of fathers is in itself a unique museum of love . It cannot be fully described in words, it can only be felt . Let's look at Desicca's film 'Bicycle Thieves' or Majid Majidi's 'Children of Heaven', 'Color of Paradise', Robert Mulligan's 'To Kill a Mockingbird', Francis Ford Coppola's 'Godfather', Gabriel Musino's 'The Pursuit of Happiness' or the Indian film 'Dangal', Ivan Turgenev's 'ing Father and Sons'. ' . These cinema and literary works are creative countermeasures that are seen by consciousness rather than the superficial role of fathers that our eyes see directly.