Marriage is considered as an important part of a person's life. It specifies where and how to advance and enhance human enjoyment of life. Marriage is usually done at a certain age. According to the Civil Code of Nepal 2074, the minimum age for men and women is 20 years and the minimum age for marriage with parental consent is 18 years.

Arranged marriages, love marriages, inter-caste marriages, Gandharva marriages, polygamy, child marriages etc. are common in Nepal. Child marriage, polygamy is legally prohibited. 

At the time of marriage, are each other's family, society, individual's thoughts, feelings, family traditions, circumstances, level etc. suitable for you/not? Is the household environment suitable/not suitable? One should be mentally prepared in advance for such matters.

After marriage, a person is and should be different from the socio-legal, religious, culturally independent and unmarried person. Men and women who marry must change in thinking, nature, relationship, behavior and other activities. A theme associated with marriage is responsibility and accountability to each other. Apart from this, the household, society, community remain the next aspects.

  Some experienced people in marriage say - marriage is a bitter subject even if it is eaten or not. Husband and wife are considered as two wheels of a chariot. Both the wheels are not equally strong, the role of both wheels is equally important and should be able to run at the same speed to make life fully meaningful. When a wheel becomes weak, the chariot slows down. In such a case, the deficiency in one must be balanced by the other wheel. When there is no ability to balance, the front journey of the chariot stops there. 

In the financial year 2079/80, 40,000 cases were registered in district, high and supreme courts across the country. The intensity of such developments has caused a major shock to the institution of marriage, which has had a direct impact on society as a whole.

Marriage should not be taken for granted. It is a matter of reaching a decision after a lot of thinking. One should pay attention to the aspects that the suitable person for marriage is/is not suitable for him/her. Are the aspects of education level, age, family structure, economic level, religion, culture, community, class, profession etc. favorable? Information should be obtained. It is easy to study all kinds of subjects in life but it is difficult to study humanitarian subjects. As much as possible, we should proceed only with information about human behavior and nature. 

When looking at others, don't forget to look at yourself. You should be able to see what your own mistakes and weaknesses are while observing the mistakes and weaknesses of others. We have to analyze each other's strengths and weaknesses and arrive at a decision.

 Marriage doesn't have to be this or that. It is unlikely that everyone will meet and marry the person they want and choose. If the main criteria are among the sufficient criteria, the rest should be negotiated and moved forward. Some parties are settled before marriage and some after marriage. The more agreement both parties have, the deeper the relationship grows. The development of the ability to compromise is what advances marriage and married life. If the agreement cannot be reached, no one can have a marriage relationship. Successful married life veterans say – success in married life without agreement is considered unimaginable.

When marriage is done hastily without study and analysis of the mentioned subjects, it is time to go to the court for divorce. In particular, the incidence of divorce seems to be higher in love marriages than in arranged marriages. A crack in the relationship between the individual himself and the family is an immaturity of thinking. You should be able to get married in a mature state of mind and create favorable conditions to move your life forward. 

is rooted in the foundations of our society, religion, culture, patriarchy. Divorce is not accepted by all parties including our mindsets so there are aspects to consider before divorce. 

(a) Disagreeable topics: Who has an understanding of the disparate topics? To study the subject, to find out the weaknesses, to feel the soul, if this is not done, the way is clear. 

(b) Unfavorable environment: It should be seen how the environment is favorable or unfavorable. The idea that there is danger in physical security should be conveyed. If there is no unfavorable environment, do not reach a decision in haste 

(c) Affected party: It is not good for third party to be affected by disagreement between two parties. These days, there are many examples of negative impact on children due to the deterioration of the relationship between parents. Parents are not allowed to do such deeds 

(d) Analysis of time: It is said that looking ahead is four hands, looking back is twelve hands. The impact of the divorce should be seen on the journey till tomorrow. The body, thoughts, and conditions do not and should not always remain the same. It's cute and feels like it's sad and weak. Don't forget to think about such things.

(e) Appropriate time: Change should be accepted as soon as the situation is better than the current situation. If the situation is worse than the current situation, it does not make sense. A decision made at the right time becomes effective by calculating the ups and downs in the journey of life. Where the calculation result is not negative. Only timely decisions can yield positive results. With the