There are also various sections on friendship and enmity. One friend who supports you in sorrow is more dear and like a relative than a thousand friends who laugh in happiness. Therefore, it should be oriented towards increasing friendship and decreasing enmity. It is felt that many people go to increase friendship but do not decrease enmity.

An anecdote of Gautama Buddha is very useful in this. 

Buddha was giving a sermon on peace in a village . A villager got up in the middle and started cursing the Buddha. Such ideals are not allowed to eat! I don't want to listen to nonsense. The hypocrite preacher should be excluded . It should be chased away from this village etc. etc. . 

Seeing the Buddha in a calm posture, the anger of that angry villager rose even more. He spat in Buddha's mouth . What to see the face of such waste ? and walked away from there. Buddha calmly completed his discourse and made his way from there.

After reaching home, the villager, who was walking very angry, felt sorry for all the actions he had done against Gautama Buddha. That person could not sleep all night . He got up early in the morning and went looking for Buddha's hut. 

Buddha was found while giving a sermon in another village. He apologized to Buddha for his behavior yesterday . But the Buddha said yesterday that I had left the same village yesterday. Are you stuck on yesterday ? Don't do this! He said that he did not have any enmity towards him by saying that he was engaged in today's work. This is the Buddha's message that enmity can be reduced through forgiveness. 

Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam says about friendship, 'A good book is equal to a hundred friends . But a good friend is like a library .'  This is why

is called - having a good friend in life means being successful in life. Many people leave the body without having a single good friend in their life . To recognize a good person and befriend him is a wonderful moment in life. 

There is a saying, 'Good friends always stick together like snow in winter, they never melt . But selfish friends dissolve quickly as snow melts in summer.' It's pointless to associate the

opportunity with not working . Most of us know who our true friend is. Who is the enemy? We cannot say that. We consider those who appreciate their exaggeration to be well-wishers . Enemy to those who tell their weaknesses. This is where people make a big mistake. In any office, we consider those who talk about others to be our people . But if it is taking other people's things to me, then this person will take my things to others, isn't it? We cannot think that. It is as if we do not see even with eyes. Falling victim to this mistake, we waste our lives.

Most people are told to read by their parents. He reminds me to return home early at night. They advise not to spend indiscriminately. He reminds us to treat everyone fairly. But for most of the sons and daughters-in-law, these suggestions seem hostile. Because of this, mothers and fathers, sons and daughters-in-law and brothers are separated from each other. Willing to share . Although they seem polite to each other, in reality, everyone is living separately . It is also known as the westerly wind effect . 

The enmity of those who work in the Ministry of Home Affairs is with those who work in the same ministry . The fight of those who work in the Ministry of Education is also between those who work within the same ministry. Those who should be friends are quarrelsome. It is an irony to get caught up in mutual disagreements when it comes to demonstrating group dynamics through mutual, collective effort. 

As it is said that a snake can see the feet of a snake, one businessman is sued by another businessman. One judge sees a flaw in another judge's judgment. Writers are critics of each other. The actors of the

movie cannot stand to see each other . The enemy of the player is the player. It is seen that the doctor's deficiency-weakness is seen by another doctor. There are factions and sub-factions within every political party. In this way, those who should be united have turned into mutual enemies. 

requires positive thinking to be successful. Positive thinking motivates to be friendly with everyone . As the number of friendships increases. In the same amount, the person who wants to do something starts to get motivated. 

Humans are selfish by nature . It is partially true that, according to this, in order to fulfill your wishes from someone, you must first understand his wishes and work. In this way, after acting according to the feelings of another person, the desired result can be achieved from him . Therefore, the tendency not to give, but to take, is fatal to oneself . If you give something to someone, you will automatically receive it from him . It should be said that man is selfish by nature. 

Asfatal has a sick Kurwa. However, all patients are waiting for a chance even to go to the toilet. Some of the Farasila people talk to each other . 'I will wait for the patient here, let him go to drink tea, go to the toilet!' says . The other feels relief from this . Its results will appear in a few moments . The person will say 'Now I am back, I will wait for the patient here, you can go out here'. 

Similarly, when the car was jammed on the road, a gentleman said, 'This motor goes here, that motor goes there, give him the first turn!' In almost all cases, everyone agrees. The jam opens . Then finally those nobles also reach their destination . 

If you work for the good of others, you will automatically be good for yourself . This is called selflessness, which leads to additional benefits, not harm. This is the investment of sacrifice.

In the family, one insists on the other saying 'I will eat this' . They forbid "don't eat that". Whereas, selfish relationships that are considered friends encourage them to drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, eat tobacco, consume betel leaves, sugarcane and tobacco and indulge in drugs. Who are our friends from this? Whose enemy? We can distinguish that . 

There is understanding, mutual feelings, discipline, respect, love, faith and trust and dedication within the family. These are the symbols of friendship. Being able to awaken such aspects and areas is the formula for happiness and happiness in life.

One day a sadhu cried out to God wanting to know the difference between heaven and hell. Pleased by his severe penance, God has appeared. After listening to the sadhu, God first took the sadhu to hell. Food was being cooked in the kitchen. Because dadu was tied to everyone's hands, they could take food but could not eat it . She was sad. All were thin and thin . When Dadu took the food and ate it, it spilled more on the floor than in the mouth. Due to which there were flies everywhere. The saint understood that there is a lot of suffering in hell. 

Then God gave the sadhu a visit to heaven . Food was being cooked in the kitchen. Dadu was tied on everyone's hands there too. They could also fetch food but could not eat it themselves. But the people there, Dadu, used to take food and feed each other . He was happy and seemed happy. Everyone's lips were filled with happiness as they were in love with each other . It was not even seen that the food was spilled while feeding each other. The environment was clean . Heaven was like sitting like this. 

From this visit, Sadhu clearly understood . After all, heaven and hell had the same order. The difference was only in people's thinking . was in practice . In hell, people would try to eat themselves, while in heaven, they would try to feed others . This thought and behavior was the cause of mutual enmity and friendship.

Who says what at what time and who understands what makes mutual friendship stronger and friendship turns into enmity . 

A man went to the bank to take a loan . The manager of the bank is happy to hear his proposal. The manager said, "We are looking for borrowers like you, we will arrange the loan". Both are pleased. A strong friendship has been established between them in a moment. 

When the manager gave him a check for the loan, his happiness knew no bounds . He said, 'Manager! I will never repay this debt of yours .'